Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of W T Ethersey with the following comment:
I am researching Commodore Richard Ethersley who committed suicide immediately prior to the attack on Mohamra, India (He served in the Indian Army) with Sir Richard F Burton who was under him as a lieutenant. That's all I know about him at the moment... BUT if this is the same man maybe you would like this information for yourself and a copy of the bit that I do have?